Thinking about certain scenarios give me confirmation that I should give up. 

Your crisis comes up It is always far bigger than mine. And I acknowledge the fact, yours is now but mine will always still be waiting here tomorrow. So I ditch my crisis for yours.

I take my pain and turn it into support and love for you. Why are you so blind to it. I don’t want to help, you do it to yourself. I have my own suffering I don’t need yours too.